It has been over a month since I blogged and I just realized that it is in writing that I find solace. I have been busy in the past month and travelling a lot to attend to demanding clients. I do not mind that because thanks to them the bills get paid. I have also been dealing with people at work and also in my social circles and oh boy! People can be really a pain in the ass!
Have you ever used a dirty toilet and there are those flies that won't just go away no matter how much pesticide you spray? You mostly find these in downtown or those pit latrines up country. Most of the time you have no option but to go in, do your thing and get the hell out of the toilet as soon as is practically possible.
This is my story with one of 'those flies of men' that won't just go away. A couple of weeks ago I was hanging out with Tom at our favorite bar. You all know Tom by now, my shag buddy. We were just there doing our thing, drowning some Jameson whiskey when two of his friends came by. We did exchange the usual pleasantries and a bit of chit chat. I am not friends to either of them but since I am an out going person, I engaged them before they decided to get their own table.
In that brief exchange, I noticed one with whom I crossed eyes several times. I really can not say he was hot because I can show you a hot man when I see one. Anyway, I did not mind knowing him and maybe doing him. After thinking about it for a while, I decided to let is pass. Two weeks later, I got a text that read "Hey DA. This is Keith, we met at the bar two weeks ago. I am a friend of Tom. Do you want to have a drink sometime?" I ordinarily do not respond to such text messages but I replied "Sure, why not". Then a date was set.
We met a week later shared a couple of drinks and late into the night I could tell where this was headed. Luckily, my girlfriend Kim was having one of those sleep overs at her friends. They call it girls movie night where they watch movies at either of her friend's and drink wine all night. I was lucky last time it was her turn to host her friends at my loft I had traveled to Egypt. So while having drinks with Keith, he suggested that we 'check out' his apartment. I knew at that moment what was going to happen. At the apartment, it went down. I did him a couple of times after which I headed back home.
That was the beginning of my problems with Keith. This guy literally became a pain in my ass. He started calling me everyday, then increased frequency to twice, thrice and even four times a day! He was getting on my nerves. I told him one time that what we had was just a ONS (One Night Stand) and that it would never happen again. He did not get it and now wanted more which I could not give. I am the kind of guy who does not believe in gay or man-to-man love or relationships. That is what he wanted and I told him that it was not going to happen. He still kept on calling and sending me text messages. He was becoming too much now! Thank goodness to Android phones, I got one of those applications that block unwanted calls and text messages. That app works perfectly and I have gotten rid of that nagging toilet fly that won't just go away called Keith!